Rain,
traditional dances, and weddings are among some of the most important events in
the Sukuma culture in Tanzania.  After successfully filling up a local river
with a major rain dance one time, Father Herb Gappa recalls having to cross the
swollen torrent in a tiny styrofoam boat.  Missionaries would on occasion have
to leave their vehicles on the far side of the river and walk the four miles to
the mission since there was no bridge in those early years at Ndoleleji.  To
avoid the hike, Herb floated downriver towards the mission and came upon two
crowds of people – one on either side of the river – yelling across to each
other.  A wedding had been planned that day.  Being afraid of the deep waters,
the bride’s family was saying, "If you love us, you’ll send your son over
here."  While the groom’s family was saying, "No, if you love us, you’ll send
your daughter over here."  As Herb floated between the two groups, he reflected
on how marriage – and perhaps mission – must involve compromises from all
involved!